As December passes by I've been very reflective about what has changed and what will be. During my usual flurry of activity I feel it's important to take a step back to reflect before taking certain steps forward. This month is perfect for this as the new year is fast approaching!
A lot has changed this past year! I've made a conscious decision to grow. This has meant revisiting certain activities and interests that have challenged me in the past. While joining SS-Triple-X I've revisited my needle fetish from the opposite side of the bevel. Doing pain performances with my Sisters in the troupe has been-and continues to be-extraordinarily rewarding on so many levels. Two of the Ladies in the troupe, Scarlett DeVille and Candyxxx, are fellow Pro Dominas I work with on a regular basis. We've exchanged and shared ideas on kink and I've learned a great deal from both of them. I've also overcome my anxieties of having my feet touched and worshiped by getting professional massage, acupuncture, and instructing well-behaved slaves on how to properly treat my feet. I'm happy to announce I will now be adding foot fetish sessions to my repertoire!
The desire to be in charge of my website has always been strong. I've wanted to learn how to code, but in the past have relied on a web developer to maintain my site. This past year I've had many struggles with my site and server getting hacked into. Unfortunately, my site is currently down, but I am making strides to learn and ultimately rebuild natalyasadici.com. My silence on this blog and on forums is not due to me retiring! It has been due to taking a step back to learn, experiment with new methods, and come back with new strength and vitality.
As mentioned a bit in my first point, I am working with a new group of Ladies. Mz Candyxxx, Mistress Scarlett DeVille(formerly Mistress Elizabeth Poole), and I have formed a collective. We're all available for sessions together, separately, and various combinations of double Domina sessions. Like me they are all working on new websites. Mistress Scarlett and I have been adhering to a demanding weekly shooting schedule. We've been shooting both photos and videos and will launch a new and exciting endeavor at the new year! I don't want to give too much away, but more announcements will be made as everything is released to the public.
I am a firm believer of whatever energy you put out to the Universe is what will come back to you. My energy is best spent on those who desire to explore FemDom, kink, and fetishes. My energy is NOT best spent on those who are manipulative, can't make up their minds, are time wasters, wankers, and those that can't keep promises. While I am fair, I am strict. I've recently done a "clean house" of sorts to evaluate where my energy has been going. Nurturing my positive relationships has been top priority. If you'd like to go on a journey of growth, exploration, and increased awareness, then we'll get along well! My goals have been set and I'm ready to move forward.
In general, I'm pleased to have key people in my life, an ability to scratch various creative itches, and to constantly learn and challenge myself.
...seem to be the story for me for the past two weeks or so. First, my phone locked up and I couldn't receive voice mail messages and now my website is down. The craziness with my phone has now subsided, and hopefully I can get website issues sorted tomorrow-when it's not a holiday.
If you need to contact me, either call or email at MistressNatalya@gmail.com.
Lately, there's been this trend of people asking the following question,
"what exactly can I expect in a session with you?"
Perhaps it's the current economic climate we live in that makes new
clients ask this question. I understand the desire for knowing
whether or not clients will be compatible with a Domina when
putting together the tribute to session. However, I think this
question can be answered by doing a bit of research. Looking at everything on a Domina's website,
reading her posting style on various Pro Domina forums, and seeing if
there are any reviews from other slaves are all ways to DO YOUR RESEARCH.
...but wondering what "exactly" will happen? What happened to the
excitement of NOT knowing precisely what you're getting into? What
happened to the allure of the hidden? What happened to planning
ahead so you can negotiate and put your trust in your Domina's hands?
When describing my style and what I enjoy most in sessions I use the
following phrase, "sensory deprivation vs. sensory overload". It's
enough information yet it can send the mind into so many different
places! Most think of sensory deprivation in the strictest
sense-blindfolds, hoods, gags, etc. Sensory deprivation can also
incorporate aspects of denial. Think of the foot fetishist that
wants nothing more than to smell the sweet aroma of her/his
Goddess's perfectly arched size 9s. Being denied, or deprived,
of this pleasure falls in line with "sensory deprivation". On the
other hand, sensory overload is anything used to overwhelm you. I
don't have to hook you up to four different electrical boxes to send
you off into subspace-though the thought is quite titillating! Sensory
overload could include using ice, tiger balm, and a feather on strategic
areas of your body all at once.
In general, sensory deprivation and sensory overload can be very personalized.
What are my captive's interests, fetishes, and fears? How can I use this
information to jet propel my specimen into a different mental space?
I enjoy getting as much information as I can to aid in a person's pervy journey.
SS-Triple-X will be performing two 30 minute acts at Debonair tomorrow evening. The first act
is "Strippers Gone Wrong" and the second act is a circus sideshow!
Come out to the free champagne social starting at 9pm.
The flier below has more information:
No, not the furry fetish...I recently did a shoot with Leon of Monkey Fetish. He brought along
the lovely Cherry-also known as Ms. C. Goddess Suki and I just HAD to have her
join in!
Here are some sneak peaks of our lovely afternoon.
This is your advance notice! Team Vespertine-consisting of SKY, Miss Ammo, Mz Candyxxx, and myself-will be having our next women only play party on August 22nd. There will be a variety of demos including: wet and stationary fire cupping, play piercing, spanking, and more!
Read the flier below:
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Come out Wednesday, the 24th, to show your support! If you can't come out, but would still like to make a donation, contact me directly.
See the flier below:
We hope to see all of you there!
