Guest Mistress Review, September 2011
By Domina Vendela Zane, The WhipGirl
Women of Discipline Studios/Dinner in Dungeon Parlour, Scranton PA USA
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It was My pleasure to host Domina Natalya Sadici at My Studio as Guest Mistress for September 2011. We haven't had a catch up in over a decade, and I was happy she accepted My invite for some fun and deviance! Since I don't get 'out of dungeon' much, I truly revel in the visits with My Guest Ladies and the party is on!
Our visit was wonderful and definately too short! I got to spoil her with some of My home cookin' and comforts, which I love to do besides being a Mistress/Mommie is to take care of My Guests!
She met My family (slaves and My youngin!--glad they all didn't drive her nuts...tee hee!) and My darling boys were at her beck and call to make her visit more enjoyable. After a loong day of video interviewing and fun shooting, we ordered from My fav local pizzeria (Brownies Pizza, Scranton. YUM!) and continued on into the eve with cocktails and shop talk. We also has some fun with some play piercing on each other. It is really wonderful to have an inspiring Lady in the house to bounce ideas off of, share play ideas and learn from. It is a lovely way to promote Sisterhood within our community.
A fun part: I did lend My slave one out for some fun. Natalya is wonderful with ropes (I'm not a rope fan, I'm an azz beater/verbal-psych player) and he truly enjoyed his treat. his lil' eyes were sparkled for days and his cute lil grin was adorable. slave georgie also got a taste of the the both of us for our video work for My clips for sale store. My newest member of the family, boy mikey got some trampling in too. Those vids are coming so stay tuned!
I also presented her with the Women of Discipline Studios logo patch to officially welcome her as a member of My studio. She is an amazing professional with confidence, character, and warmth. We had lotsa hugs and I grabbed a few smooches here and there..nuthin too fresh! ;)
It was an absolutely wonderful visit, and I look forward to her return. Chicago locals and visitors, I highly recommend her skill and knowledge, and see her for an extraordinary experience. You won't be disappointed. (I learned more about rope, watch out!)
Much love to you all,
Domina Vendela Zane
The WhipGirl
...and here's my review of my visit:
Upon my arrival to Scranton, PA the passion and love for FemDom was palpable. I was picked up from the airport by Vendela Zane and slave 4. Yes, she has four full time slaves! After a quick drive to the B&B(it's conveniently located near the airport) I was treated to an absolutely delicious lasagna dinner! Vendela mentioned the lasagna was made from local ingredients. It had a great balance of flavors…and I kept asking for more.
During dinner Vendela and I caught up. We discussed-at length-our views on FemDom and I asked her what it was like to run a 24/7 household. I found Vendela to be open and honest with a, "take no bullshit" attitude. From our discussions and my experiences throughout the weekend it was clear she runs a tight ship, but does so with love. We very easily talked throughout the night. The common theme here will be running on little to no sleep, but that's to be expected with you get two fiery personalities together!
The next day slave 4 took me on a tour around Scranton. My favorite part was visiting the park to see Vendela's brick. She donated to a local charity and there's a brick with her name on it in the park. I think it's wonderful when people from the community give back. Once I returned to the B&B Vendela gave me a goodie basket of lovely treats! There was chocolate from the local chocolatier, Gertrude Hawk, "Mistress" and "Sadist" chapstick, and leather scented soap and a candle. The soap is great for sensitive skin like mine, and the scent reminds me of many devious times in the dungeon. Later on in the evening Vendela and I got a chance to do some play piercing. Since play piercing is one of my favorite activities, I was very happy to share this passion with her.
After yet another night that went by too quickly, Vendela and I did a day of shooting. I was able to meet slaves 1 and 2. In general, all of Vendela's slaves have such different personalities. It was so great to experience them serving both of us so smoothly! They are well behaved, courteous, and thoughtful. Our shooting started with an interview of me and resulted in other clips as well. Vendela's questions really made me think and I could feel the synergy between us when I answered.
What else can be said about Vendela that hasn't been said already? When my friends have asked me about how my trip was, I pause and say, "that woman is a force to be fucking reckoned with!" Make no mistake…this Alpha woman's energy is infectious and will alter you in a positive way. I feel honored to have been a guest at Vendela Zane's studio!
Get ready...I will be a Guest Mistress at Vendela Zane's amazing Women of Discipline Studios in September! I know it's a way off, but I am extremely excited and honored to be a guest here. During my trip I will be sessioning, shooting video, and being interviewed for Vendela's YouTube channel. This will be a very special birthday month for me.
Vendela Zane also runs The Segreto Dello Zane BDSM B&B. Go to http://whipgirl.com/ for more information on this amazing woman! She is a force of nature!
Last weekend I attended Lilith Grey's intensive which included classes on psychology and BDSM. We took a shorter version of the MBTI and discussed how different personality types function in the world. Lilith's class on difficult conversations was extremely valuable. There are so many classes on negotiations, but very little said about how to discuss difficult topics and situations. I also attended the kinky sign language class! I went in thinking it would helpful to have different signals when in a loud play space, but came out having a new appreciate of ASL. Thank you Lilith Grey!
In other news, I've started shooting videos again. This means I will have A LOT of editing to do, however, I'm excited about relaunching my personal clips4sale store. While I slowly get closer to getting a new MacBook Pro, I'm excited to have some fresh content to edit! So, again, if you'd like to help my fund in any way contact me about sending a donation. The sooner I get a new machine, the sooner I can crank out more hot Femdom and fetish action! Today we shot some ball busting and boot fetish clips. I've teamed up with Mz Candyxxx and I'm very proud of what we've been able to accomplish in our first shoot together.
Hopefully all of you are behaving yourselves and looking forward to spring as much as I am!
I will be attending DomCon LA on May 18th-23rd. My new pet, kaedo will be coming with me. This will be my first time traveling with a pet, actually. In the past I never had the time. The last DomCon I attended was with a kinky lover. I make the distinction because certain titles mean different things to me. While that is a whole subject entirely(and one we'll hear from kaedo on shortly), I feel it's worthy of mention here. Traveling with a submissive, pet, slave, or lover can be very different. I'm looking forward to playing, conversing, networking, playing more, going to classes, checking out the vendors, and playing! ;)
To get more information, go to www.domconla.com!
My entries have been few and far between, though I've promised myself I'd be better about blogging. It's difficult when so much happens all at once! As many of my associates say, "there aren't enough hours in the day!"
Recently I started training a new lifestyle sub. He has certain qualities that often take a long time for others to grasp. We have many mutual shared interests, and all around this seems to be a wonderful fit. Taking someone on in this manner is not something I take lightly. Our latest play time involved an activity I've developed an affinity for. I believe slaves should have many talents...one of which being the ability to paint with any orifice. Maybe I've developed a new fetish? The idea of a slave painting with a brush grasped in a pussy or asshole sends delightful shivers down my spine.
The first slave to do this was doggie. Her first attempt was awful and barely legible. She was thoroughly punished for even deciding to show such dreadful work. Her second attempt was much better. The letters of her poem were the same height and the spacing was even. Her poem read, "Ass banana, ass ass banana. I don't need no manna, just my ass banana." This was in reference to a previous play time.
Now, my new male pet did a wonderful job on his first try! He had been instructed to refrain from jerking off for a week and a half. I had him write haikus to describe his sexual frustration. When I finally saw him face to face he knew what was coming. All the proper supplies were waiting on the kitchen table. Below is the result of that evening:
I admire his tenacity in finishing this assignment and look forward to his continued training.
On a different note...the "High Pervy Holidays" of Chicago are almost upon us! What I mean is Memorial Day Weekend. Chicago has both IML and Shibaricon packed into one weekend. As I've mentioned before, I wish Shibaricon would be on a different weekend-since IML has been a tradition for three decades-and it's impossible to get as much as you'd want to out of both. I'll be making an appearance at IML this year and helping throw Vespertine. This lovely women only play party is held by Daddy Sky, Candyxxx, and Ammo this time around. These fine Ladies are part of my pervy family here in Chicago. For more information on Vespertine, see the flier below:
I hope to see many of the scene's fine ladies there!
Due to an issue with the venue, the Alice in Wonderlust show has been canceled. Since so much time, energy, and planning has been put into this production, I hope it can be rescheduled in the near future!
Get ready to go down the rabbit hole with us! A few of my fellow SSXXX members will be in this show. Miss Kay, Ammo, Candyxxx, Scarlett, and I are a portion of this vivacious cast. Save the dates!
Hopefully everyone had a nice ringing in of 2010 and is in good spirits, good health, and ready to play! I know I am. As usual, there are many projects I'm working on currently. Over the coming weeks I'll make more announcements to clue all of you in as to what's going on.
For now, I will be performing three times this month! The first one is January 13th with SSXXX. Look at the flier below:
The second one is Scarlett DeVille and I on January 16th at Betty's Blue Star. The third one is on Saturday, January 30th at Lucky Number. Mark your calenders and come out!
As December passes by I've been very reflective about what has changed and what will be. During my usual flurry of activity I feel it's important to take a step back to reflect before taking certain steps forward. This month is perfect for this as the new year is fast approaching!
A lot has changed this past year! I've made a conscious decision to grow. This has meant revisiting certain activities and interests that have challenged me in the past. While joining SS-Triple-X I've revisited my needle fetish from the opposite side of the bevel. Doing pain performances with my Sisters in the troupe has been-and continues to be-extraordinarily rewarding on so many levels. Two of the Ladies in the troupe, Scarlett DeVille and Candyxxx, are fellow Pro Dominas I work with on a regular basis. We've exchanged and shared ideas on kink and I've learned a great deal from both of them. I've also overcome my anxieties of having my feet touched and worshiped by getting professional massage, acupuncture, and instructing well-behaved slaves on how to properly treat my feet. I'm happy to announce I will now be adding foot fetish sessions to my repertoire!
The desire to be in charge of my website has always been strong. I've wanted to learn how to code, but in the past have relied on a web developer to maintain my site. This past year I've had many struggles with my site and server getting hacked into. Unfortunately, my site is currently down, but I am making strides to learn and ultimately rebuild natalyasadici.com. My silence on this blog and on forums is not due to me retiring! It has been due to taking a step back to learn, experiment with new methods, and come back with new strength and vitality.
As mentioned a bit in my first point, I am working with a new group of Ladies. Mz Candyxxx, Mistress Scarlett DeVille(formerly Mistress Elizabeth Poole), and I have formed a collective. We're all available for sessions together, separately, and various combinations of double Domina sessions. Like me they are all working on new websites. Mistress Scarlett and I have been adhering to a demanding weekly shooting schedule. We've been shooting both photos and videos and will launch a new and exciting endeavor at the new year! I don't want to give too much away, but more announcements will be made as everything is released to the public.
I am a firm believer of whatever energy you put out to the Universe is what will come back to you. My energy is best spent on those who desire to explore FemDom, kink, and fetishes. My energy is NOT best spent on those who are manipulative, can't make up their minds, are time wasters, wankers, and those that can't keep promises. While I am fair, I am strict. I've recently done a "clean house" of sorts to evaluate where my energy has been going. Nurturing my positive relationships has been top priority. If you'd like to go on a journey of growth, exploration, and increased awareness, then we'll get along well! My goals have been set and I'm ready to move forward.
In general, I'm pleased to have key people in my life, an ability to scratch various creative itches, and to constantly learn and challenge myself.
This is your advance notice! Team Vespertine-consisting of SKY, Miss Ammo, Mz Candyxxx, and myself-will be having our next women only play party on August 22nd. There will be a variety of demos including: wet and stationary fire cupping, play piercing, spanking, and more!
Read the flier below:
Come out Wednesday, the 24th, to show your support! If you can't come out, but would still like to make a donation, contact me directly.
See the flier below:
We hope to see all of you there!
SS-Triple-X will be performing FRIDAY JUNE 12TH!!!
"Post-Apocalyptic Fetish Picnic!"
Scarlett D'Evil and Natalya Sadici get taken over by Erynn Anarchy, Ammunition & Candyxxx in a bloody battle for power. Not your everyday picnic.
Hard-Wear Fashion show will be SATURDAY JUNE 13TH!!!
On Wednesday the 29th I'll be attending the Chicago Sexpo! It should be a fun evening of performances, mingling, and networking for adult industry people. At first I thought it would be primarily vanilla porn industry people, but there will be performances by the Pain Kurst Girls and Miss Maya Sinstress will have a booth. We'll see what happens...I'm going to wear a latex gown from Vex.
Hopefully I'll see some of you there! Here's the flier and more information so you can get your tickets.
Tonight I will be tormenting victims at Exit's weekly Bondage A Go Go! This evening Miss Maya, Mistress Cleo, and I will be a ferocious triad.
Come out to say hello and get your masochistic itch scratched. For more information, go to www.exitchicago.com
...and I couldn't be more excited! I'll be packing a lot of hemp rope, rubber, some leather, a few choice toys, and yummy heels. When I return I'm sure I'll have some slippery tales.
NOTE: My 24/7 info line is on the fritz. For those of you who've called it, email me directly at MistressNatalya@gmail.com. I will have frequent online capabilities during my travels.
Yes, I will traveling to the left coast August 8th-16th. I will be taking a limited number of sessions as I want to balance playing with exploring the Bay Area. If everything works out, I will try to make yearly trips to SF!
If you want to play, make sure we have ample time to negotiate. Fill out the application form on my site or you may call my 24/7 information line and leave me a voice mail. I will return your call at my earliest convenience. The number is (641)715-3900 ext. 80010
I wasn't kidding about September...
Come out and give summer a death kiss with us!
*I'm not sure why the right side keeps getting cut off. If someone can help me fix this, I'd greatly appreciate it.
In my previous post I included the details for the celebration, but here are some gift ideas:
A gift certificate to Madame-S:
http://www.madame-s.com/GC001.html
A gift certificate to Jt's Stockroom:
http://www.stockroom.com/Gift-Certificate-P2316.aspx
A gift certificate to Amazon:
http://amazon.com/gp/product/B00067L6TQ/ref=sv_gw_0/103-3554881-3097418
A gift certificate to Ruby Room spa:
https://rubyroom.boomtime.com/lgift
A gift certificate to Vex Clothing(aka yummy latex!):
http://vexclothing.com/Products/Extras/collection.php?page=giftcert
Many of these gift certificates can be sent via email to: MistressNatalya@gmail.com
If not, you can present them to me at the party at Exit, or arrange a private session.
*****My actual birthday is September 27th.
